DISQUS

Love and More: Cheerleaders, booze and soldiers

  • Pauly · 2 years ago
    I’m sure things like this have been going on all along but it hasn’t been until recently that we, as a society, have been exposing & prosecuting these woman. Most of this, I assume
  • Pauly · 2 years ago
    I’m sure things like this have been going on all along but it hasn’t been until recently that we, as a society, have been exposing & prosecuting these woman. Most of this, I assume, has come about because the public at large have been so one sided in their pursuit and incarceration of the male offenders. Just recently there was a gorgeous female teacher who not only had sex with a student but even sent him a phone recorded strip dance after the courts told her to keep away from the boy. In her case she got of with a slap on the hand. I think she only got probation for a few years. Now consider if that were a male teacher doing that to a female student. We, as a society, would lock him up and throw away the key.

    The question is; why are we less offended when a female teacher takes advantage of a male student? For me the answer is easy. First and foremost sex cannot accrue unless the male is aroused and develops an erection. Without the erection, it’s just heavy petting. So how can you “rape� the willing? You don’t. The male student was not “raped� per-say. Yes he may have been taken advantage of, but as male fantasy’s goes, is it really being taken advantage of or is the male student taking advantage of a woman who (for a lack of a better term) is not running on all cylinders. Most of these women are married and a lot have a family. But as far as stereotypical fantasy’s goes, you have the 3-way, the school girl and the librarian (or teacher) type who wants to be that slut.

    Hell, even I was thinking, “why would you tell your parents or anybody what was going and ruin such a good thing?� Is it wrong? Possibly. But than again…I’m male.
  • Anonymous · 2 years ago
    I'm pretty sure Pauly just answered his own question...
  • Pauly · 2 years ago
    You darn right! Besides who would consider you point of view if you don't even post a name?
  • Anonymous · 2 years ago
    Apparently you, Pauly.
  • Pauly · 2 years ago
    I responded to a person who is too scared to post an identity…I never considered your opinion…as if you even gave one. Try to give some though to your postings…or remain the anonymous idiot.
  • Terri · 2 years ago
    Most 17 year old boys I know would not feel victimized if a hot female teacher took an interest in them. Instead, they would brag about it to their friends which is the reason the teacher gets busted. Girls on the other hand tend to feel that they have been violated and because of the shame and guilt they may feel, though unfounded may take awhile to let it be known what happened to them. That is why once they finally get up the courage to tell someone, the law comes down harder on the men. It's much more painful for girls than for boys unless of course the boy is assaulted by a male teacher. That's not to say that female teachers who commit acts like this should be held blameless because they should know better, but girls have alot more to lose sexually than their male counterparts.